Changing Lanes !!!
Life can be so unpredictable..really when you come to think of it, it presents you with so many uncertainties, happiness, sorrow, freedom...
Some day when you are sitting idle, doing nothing really, that stark reality suddenly hits you, atleast me.
If i think of what i was some 4 yrs before, when i was in India, making preparations for studying in the USA.Those days i was a very quiet, well behaved son of my proud parents. I was neither into fashion, girls or drinking and felt that i was tied down in some way.
Then i come to US and landed in Miami, i become totally free, no one to ask, u make ur own decisions. Thats where i come across this wonderful arrays of friends. I never had such close friendship in India and realised what true friends are all about. I, lets say we, do nothing throughout our masters other than idyling time playing whatever games available. And by the end of it, 2 yrs to be perfect, u start ur job search and realise that u dont have any qualifications really to apply for any job. However those 2 yrs made me tough. it seemed to me though that i cud remain calm and composed in any given situation. That whatever the situation u r in, i seemed to laugh it away thinking good things are just around the corner.
Suddenly, the dream run comes to an end, u pack ur bags and r suddenly in a different place, u dont have ur friends they always were by ur side (i mean physically) n then u realize that , hey this is what life is all about, u have to move on.
In NYC, you think that life has kind of settled. However being accustomed to being around friends all ur time, u find different ways of keeping urself busy..so u venture into things u have never done before, driking, going pubs/clubs/bars and partying in general and yes dating. 2 yrs in miami i had no time to think abt what dating is and how common it is in US. A stint of an yr or so in NYC was enuf for me to jump in the dating scene.
Well life changes tracks very fast and i dont know what the next big change wud be, will it be career or marriage.
PS: I always tend to write these kind of blogs when i have been drunk the previous nite and get up in the morning to realise, hold on, that was not what i was before...
Some day when you are sitting idle, doing nothing really, that stark reality suddenly hits you, atleast me.
If i think of what i was some 4 yrs before, when i was in India, making preparations for studying in the USA.Those days i was a very quiet, well behaved son of my proud parents. I was neither into fashion, girls or drinking and felt that i was tied down in some way.
Then i come to US and landed in Miami, i become totally free, no one to ask, u make ur own decisions. Thats where i come across this wonderful arrays of friends. I never had such close friendship in India and realised what true friends are all about. I, lets say we, do nothing throughout our masters other than idyling time playing whatever games available. And by the end of it, 2 yrs to be perfect, u start ur job search and realise that u dont have any qualifications really to apply for any job. However those 2 yrs made me tough. it seemed to me though that i cud remain calm and composed in any given situation. That whatever the situation u r in, i seemed to laugh it away thinking good things are just around the corner.
Suddenly, the dream run comes to an end, u pack ur bags and r suddenly in a different place, u dont have ur friends they always were by ur side (i mean physically) n then u realize that , hey this is what life is all about, u have to move on.
In NYC, you think that life has kind of settled. However being accustomed to being around friends all ur time, u find different ways of keeping urself busy..so u venture into things u have never done before, driking, going pubs/clubs/bars and partying in general and yes dating. 2 yrs in miami i had no time to think abt what dating is and how common it is in US. A stint of an yr or so in NYC was enuf for me to jump in the dating scene.
Well life changes tracks very fast and i dont know what the next big change wud be, will it be career or marriage.
PS: I always tend to write these kind of blogs when i have been drunk the previous nite and get up in the morning to realise, hold on, that was not what i was before...
posted by Sachin Khare at 12:12 PM
2 Comments:
good one maushi!!! Time flies by and so does our thinking, attitude, behavior and our ability to adapt to new circumstances, new world!!!!
Are, mi kela ki research FIU madhe! :))
Anyway what steve waugh says is right I guess, you have to move out of comfort zones !
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